Bad Behaviour, Cat Person and Loop Track are all in cinemas

For lots of this long life I have always assumed that, when it comes to gendered experience of the world, there was more that was universal than not.
That what separated us gender-wise was on the margins and that our art could reflect that, but also that the best art transcended those differences.
Well, as I get older I realise that is a pretty patriarchal way of looking at the world. A reflection of previously unexamined privilege, if you like.
By way of confirmation of the wrongheadedness of those assumptions, along come two films by women writers and directors that demonstrate that the female experience of the world is, indeed, fundamentally different to mine and my cohorts.
One of those films very much wants us to understand the female point-of-view and the other, I think, doesn’t give two hoots about whether people like me get it or not. It’s not for us.
Regardless, men should be paying attention. We might learn something.
Cat Person (written by Michelle Alford from a New Yorker short story by Kristen Roupenian and directed by Susanna Fogel) is about dating but it’s not a rom-com. In fact, it’s a genre-hopping thriller with comedic, horror and coming-of-age overtones.
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Emilia Jones plays Margot, a sophomore at a New Jersey university, working part-time at the local arthouse multiplex. Bored, she flirts with one of the patrons, Robert (Nicholas Braun), and they start a text relationship that soon looks like it might tip over into something more serious.
Robert is much older than Margot – he’s in his mid-30s – and her best friend (Geraldine Visnawathan) is determined to protect her from making what she thinks is a big mistake.
But when someone is set on making a mistake then mistakes will surely be made and these ones have some devastating consequences.
The success of the film is in the vivid portrayal of the inner feelings of women around men they don’t know. There’s a brilliantly handled scene where Margot wants to change her mind about a tryst with Robert but doesn’t know how to escape it and has a furious debate with the better version of herself on the other side of the room.
Cat Person should be mandatory viewing for all young folk at their 15th birthday – maybe even younger. Maybe then people might go through life with a better understanding of what’s in the heads of the opposite sex and not have to wait until they are in their 50s to finally ‘get it’.
It doesn’t matter whether Robert is a fundamentally decent but misunderstood guy or not, what matters is how his blindspots, his prioritising of his own feelings, his bluster instead of self-confidence, his terrible role models about masculinity and sex … how those things make women feel. Because, one would hope, that if he knew what was actually going on he might find ways to modulate himself a bit.
Or is that too much to ask?

Jennifer Connelly’s father-in-law Thane Bettany spent a few years in the 1960s performing with Aotearoa’s first professional theatre company, the New Zealand Players. The New Zealand Players were directed by Richard Campion who was the father of the acclaimed film director Jane, who in turn is the mother of Alice Englert who is the writer-director of the new film Bad Behaviour which stars Jennifer Connelly.
It’s performance whakapapa of a sort. Certainly an extended family connection.
Hollywood veteran Connelly is an absolute force of nature with a performance that is richer and braver than anything I think I’ve seen her do before.
She is a former television star living off endless residuals and attempting various forms of self-help to deal with her childhood trauma and her own parental guilt. At a retreat in Oregon with a British guru (Ben Whishaw – who wouldn’t want therapy from Paddington?) her self-absorbtion reaches an all-time high.
Meanwhile, her daughter (Englert herself) is a stunt co-ordinator on a fantasy film being shot in Otago, falling into an unwise affair with a colleague (Marlon Williams).
Some will quibble with the lack of narrative logic or the ‘rich people’s problems’ aspect of the film but I choose to believe that – like the early films of her mother – Englert isn’t too perturbed about things like ‘story’ or ‘a satisfying ending’. It’s not what interests her.
What preoccupies her is what these characters will say and do with each other when they are put in a room with each other under pressure – that’s all that the story is there for, to make that happen.
And what we get is wildly variable but never not interesting. Do we believe it? Elaine Stritch once said of watching Marlon Brando at the Actors Studio that he would often make terrible choices but that they were always truthful. I hope that’s what Englert is going for here and if a lot of it doesn’t work for me that’s fine.
A final observation, the hotel scenes in the film were filmed at Wallaceville House which is a couple of miles up the road from where I’m typing this. Which means that Jennifer Connelly drove past my house and nobody told me! I’m disappointed in all of you.

It’s clearly Tom Sainsbury week as he has a small role in Bad Behaviour and also Orson Welles’s himself into all the important roles in Loop Track, an effective low budget thriller about an anxiety-ridden man having to engage with strangers – and a stranger thing – on a New Zealand bushwalk.
Famous in New Zealand for his comedy, Sainsbury shows himself to be a more than adept director of horror as the early broad-brush characterisations make way for something more nuanced.
As a writer, I wish he’d tightened up the script a bit more – the film could do with losing a few minutes in the third act which should just be going hell for leather in my opinion – but it’s a great idea pretty well executed.
Nice to see indie stalwart Hayden Weal get a decent chunk of screentime. There are very few New Zealand actors who a camera loves quite as much as Hayden and I suspect it works the other way too.
Editor’s note
One of the things about taking on this newsletter that I hadn’t quite considered was that, if I’m going to be also producing content for RNZ – for Nights, At the Movies and for the website – I’m going to be watching a lot of stuff. And that stuff takes time.
I know there have been some reasonably high profile films land on streaming services this week and I would normally attempt to cover them here but I just haven’t had the time to sit and watch them.
The plan is to get there eventually and – if worthy – they’ll become “Something to watch tonight” entries later on.