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Something to watch tonight: Friday 14 February

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May December (Haynes, 2023)

On this day a year ago, my inter­view with writer/director Todd Haynes was played on At the Movies. He was pro­mot­ing his most recent film, May December, in which Natalie Portman plays an act­or research­ing a role by vis­it­ing a woman (Julianne Moore) who had become notori­ous for sleep­ing with and then mar­ry­ing and hav­ing chil­dren with a 13-year-old co-worker (Charles Melton).

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I don’t get to do inter­views very often – and I’m a bit wary of becom­ing a “show­biz” report­er so I don’t seek them out – but I really enjoyed talk­ing to Haynes and then edit­ing our con­ver­sa­tion for a 13-minute At the Movies seg­ment.

I reviewed the film here not long after:

In this case, the way that Portman goes about her work, it feels kind of exploit­at­ive, pred­at­ory. Which in a way is appro­pri­ate because the char­ac­ter she is going to play gained her notori­ety for exactly the same thing. She was once jailed for the crime of stat­utory rape, hav­ing a sexu­al rela­tion­ship with a 13-year-old col­league at the pet store where she worked. (The char­ac­ter is inspired by Mary Kay Letourneau, who as an ele­ment­ary school teach­er abused, had chil­dren to and then mar­ried Vili Fualaau.)

The film could be about the pro­cess an act­or goes through and how that pro­cess appears to nor­mal people, or it’s a por­trait of a rela­tion­ship whose com­plex­ity is almost impossible to divine, or – as Haynes sug­ges­ted to me when I inter­viewed him for RNZ – it’s about who gets to tell our stor­ies and define our narratives.

Oh well, it’s his film, he should prob­ably know.

I know today is Valentine’s Day, and this is a fun­da­ment­ally inap­pro­pri­ate choice for date night movie, but if you tune in to Nights on RNZ tonight at 9.40 I’ll have a bet­ter recommendation.


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Where to watch May December

Aotearoa: Digital rent­al includ­ing from AroVision

Australia: Streaming on Prime Video, Binge and Foxtel

Canada & USA: Streaming on Netflix

Ireland & UK: Streaming on Sky

India: Streaming on Prime Video